"I guess my feet know where they want me to go walking on a country road." James Taylor

Saturday, December 31, 2011

In Memory Of One Man On His Birthday in Heaven

I suppose that there are those
Who'll say he had it easy
Had it made in fact
Before hed even begun
But they dont know the things I know
I was always with him
It may sound strange
We were more than friends

Its hard to tell the truth
When no one wants to listen
When no one really cares
Whats going on
And its hard to stand alone
When you need someone beside you
Your spirit and your faith
They must be strong

What one man can do is dream
What one man can do is love
What one man can do is change the world
And make it young again
Here you see what one man can do

As shaded as his eyes might be
Thats how bright his mind is
Thats how strong his love
For you and me
A friend to all the universe
Grandfather of the future
And everything I would like to be

What one man can do is dream
What one man can do is love
What one man can do is change the world
And make it young again
Here you see what one man can do

What one man can do is dream
What one man can do is love
What one man can do is change the world
And make it young again
Here you see what one man can do

Words and music by John Denver 

Friday, December 30, 2011

Wednesday, December 28, 2011

A Visit From A White Dove

An Excerpt from my diary, August 19,  2010

Yesterday afternoon while my daughter Jennifer and I were grocery shopping I experienced something marvelous. As we were pulling into the Marlin Meat Market approximately six miles north of Pottsville, we noticed a rather elderly lady walking away from the market with two heavy laden bags in her hands. She looked as though she could hardly move. I mentioned to Jen that she looked like she needed a lift to her home.

I pulled into the parking space, and Jen got out to go in for her order. As she walked to the front of the store she looked back at the elderly lady fumbling along. I told the kids to stay in their safety seats, as we were going back to give her a much needed lift home. I backed out of my space and pulled out onto the street, as she did not get even to the end of the block. I rolled the window down and asked her if she would like a ride home. She very graciously excepted, and hopped on into our van.

When I asked her where she lived she replied, "I missed my bus, I live in Pottsville". At first I was a little taken back, as I thought she most likely lived in the same neighborhood as the meat market. Then I told her that we had to go back to the meat market as my daughter was in there shopping. She was completely fine with that, and just grateful for the ride.

While we sat in the parking lot waiting for my daughter, we talked. Her name was Sylvie and she originally was from Antigua, but had lived in NYC, and then Pottsville for many years. Her husband died two years ago, and she had two grown daughters. She loved living independently and had refused living with a daughter. She never learned to drive despite her husband's insistence. She was a home body type person, and didn't care to travel.

Sylvie stated that as a person of color she was thrilled that Barack Obama was President. All of her life she mostly associated with persons of her own race, and didn't know much of the culture of others. I discussed with her the fact that when I saw the movie "Soul Food" I realized how much my family mirrored the family in the movie. My mother always had her grown up children show up for a huge Sunday dinner too. We had our various personality quirks amongst the five siblings, and lots of dysfunction,tears, love and laughter.

Suddenly, a white bird appeared off to the passenger side of the van, and "Clunk!" it landed on the roof right above where Sylvie was seated. Originally I thought it was a seagull, but as we watched its reflection in the window of the car parked next to us, I realized it was a white dove. The white dove of Peace.

The Torah and the Old Testament describe a story in which a dove was released by Noah after the Great Flood in order to find land. The dove came back carrying an olive branch in its beak, proof for Noah that the tumultuous waters of the Great Flood were receding, and humans could soon resume a normal life. Several times in the Bible the dove appears as the Holy Spirit, as when Jesus was baptized by John.

I have been going through many tribulations lately, and after we drove this lovely new friend home yesterday the thoughts of the visit from the dove was quite uplifting and made me feel as though there was a light at the end of the tunnel and it wasn't an oncoming train , but the light of the Holy Spirit who is totally in charge of my life.

This was read at my wedding ceremony: Jeremiah 29:11  'For I know the plans I have for you," declares the LORD, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future".

Tuesday, December 27, 2011

Time Capsule 2011 An Amazing Year Of Blessings




 This year was the most wonderful year with many blessings and some sad moments too.  This is an album of  many of our favorite memories of 2011.




In Memory of Nanny Nicholas



One very special family member turned 100 on September 27th, and then went on to be with the Lord  on November 17, 2011




January 2011 Manilow

In May we lost our beloved kitty Manilow who would have turned 17 in September had the neighbor's Huskies not taken his life while he was sleeping on the front porch chair.  





But then on December 23 our family got a brand new member to carry on our Dunwell surname for a new generation, when my nephew's wife delivered a healthy baby boy! 









The above Photobucket Slide Show only previews some of the photos in this album. To see all of the photos of the many memorable moments of 2011 please follow the link to View All...


U2 Concert July 14, 2011 Philly




Cyndi Lauper Concert Oct.22, 2011 Reading PA



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Celtic Woman Concert March 21, 2011 Reading, PA







Johnny Mathis, Gary Mule Deer Concert April 28, 2011




Ryan Pelton Concert August 4, 2011 Schuylkill County Fair





Marie Levin Reba Impersonator Concert Kutztown Fair August 19, 2011




Ferbruary 2011 Trip Epcot  Walt Disney World Florida




December trip to Florida Magic Kingdom with Princess Abigayle on her 9th Birthday




My 60th Birthday Bash October 2011



Sunday, December 25, 2011

May The Blessing Of Peace Be With You This Christmas and Always



Come they told me pa-rum-pum-pum-pum
A new-born king to see pa-rum-pum-pum-pum
Our finest gifts we bring pa-rum-pum-pum-pum
Rum-pum-pum-pum, rum-pum-pum-pum

Come they told me pa-rum-pum-pum-pum
A new-born king to see pa-rum-pum-pum-pum
Our finest gifts we bring pa-rum-pum-pum-pum
to lay before the king pa-rum-pum-pum-pum
Rum-pum-pum-pum, rum-pum-pum-pum
so to honour him pa-rum-pum-pum-pum
when we come

Little baby pa-rum-pum-pum-pum
I stood beside him there pa-rum-pum-pum-pum
I played my drum for him pa-rum-pum-pum-pum
I played my best for him pa-rum-pum-pum-pum
Rum-pum-pum-pum, rum-pum-pum-pum
And he smiled at me pa-rum-pum-pum-pum
me and my drum

Peace on Earth, can it be
Years from now, perhaps we'll see
See the day of glory
See the day, when men of good will
Live in peace, live in peace again

Peace on Earth, can it be
Every child must be made aware
Every child must be made to care
Care enough for his fellow man
To give all the love that he can

I pray my wish will come true
For my child and your child too
He'll see the day of glory
See the day when men of good will
Live in peace, live in peace again

Peace on Earth, can it be
Can it be

Friday, December 23, 2011

A Poem From My Daughter Jamiann's Mother-In-Law

"HOLIDAYS" - A Christmas Poem 
                                                      by Pat R.

Once a year as our earth goes to sleep, Like the bears' hibernation for a long winter's keep, We ponder the fruitfulness of a year tirelessly spent, Tilling, planting, harvesting, and wonder where it went.

Time speeds by a year or two, five and more, And all we have that's worthwhile is what we store.

Are we storing up life's treasures like the grains in the bin, To be able to access them when our vigor runs thin?

Then the holidays come upon us, sometimes joyful, sometimes sad. Our thoughts return to days gone by when more times were glad.

Holidays, holidays, people rushing to and fro. Sometimes in such a hurry, they're forgetting where to go.

GO to that quiet place inside us where peace is always sought, Instead of just the worldly where everything is bought.

Then before we know it the celebrating is done, And we try to remember only all that was fun.

But that's not what is lasting and making us grow. It's the seeds of service and gratitude that we did sow, In visiting that old and lost someone living all alone, Or living in some nursing home because family is gone.

LIVE a life that's full of love, and make it serve mankind, And you will reap such great rewards that most will never find.

Thursday, December 22, 2011

An Amazing Find On Our Way Home From Florida

ONE OF MY FAVORITE LITTLE SURPRISES OF 2011!



  The complimentary continental breakfast was really great and included scrambled eggs, sausage, bacon, chicken nuggets, biscuits and gravy, home made waffles with a waffle iron, along with the usual bagels, danish, toast, muffins, fruit,  donut shoppe coffee, tea, three fruit juices, milk, chocolate milk. 



628 CC Camp Road /268 Bypass · Elkin, North Carolina  From Florida Rt. 95 N -Rt.26 W -77 toward Charlotte, Exit  85, take ramp right for NC-268-BYP toward Elkin  The Hotel is on your left.

When exiting you will see a restaurant on your right it is Pirates Landing ...great seafood at very reasonable prices and family oriented. 




http://www.captainjimismagic.com/

http://pirateslanding-nc.com/

*All along the route from Florida to Pennsylvania there were rest areas with booklets on a rack.  They have great coupons for hotel rooms and that is how my daughter discovered this hotel and the price was less than $80.00 per night with a coupon.  

An Old Fashioned Christmas, Remembering A Special Godmother

Little Prayer

Little prayer be on your way,
God bless you on this Christmas Day
With happiness supreme,
And may you gather all the gifts,
Of which you ever dream.

May all your friends remember you,
With sentiment sincere,
To add a world of pleasure, and 
To multiply your cheer.

God bless you with the courage to 
Pursue each noble quest and
Grant this golden yule will be 
By far your happiest.

May all the ornaments and lights,
Upon your Christmas tree
Reflect the peace and comfort of
Your loving family.

May every moment of your life
Seem wonderful and new,
And in the year a week away 
May all your dreams come true.

The above poem was hand written in a Christmas Card from my Great Aunt Ree who was also my God Mother; Christmas 1978.

My book, My Ominous Adventures At True Blue Farm, The Secret Behind The Mirror features this amazing woman and her wonderful 85 acre farm in the Blue Mountains of Pennsylvania set between Martins Creek and Bangor.

The following is an excerpt from the book: As I close my eyes and picture my wonderful Aunt Ree I see a heavyset woman with soft rounded features. Her hair was gray and parted on the side, a bobbed cut with finger waves on her forehead. She always used Palmolive soap and Jergens Lotion and her skin was soft, with slightly rosy cheeks and never a wrinkle. Her eyes were of a transparent blue and she had a cleft type scar on her bottom lip that gave her lips a certain attractiveness like a mole on the cheek does for some women. As a young lady she resembled the Hollywood actress Jean Harlow who was known as the original blond bombshell.

When I was little she had the perfect grandmother look. When we would go outside in the summer she wore a big straw hat and a tea length cotton flowered dress covered with a pinafore apron, which also was of a flowery pattern. Although she never bore children of her own, she sure knew how to make kids happy and holy.

During each visit to her house you heard a sermon daily. You were taught scripture from the Bible and you always said your prayers. On one occasion I can remember her telling us a story about how she had been shopping at a grocery store when a boy was caught shoplifting. She pulled the store manager aside and paid for the item the boy stole and she then proceeded to preach the wages of sin, and the gospel of Jesus Christ and forgiveness to the boy. I’d like to think that she led that boy straight down the path of salvation that day.

She was not only our Great Aunt but she was also the God Mother of each of my mother’s children. She took her responsibility seriously as her faith in God and her Pennsylvania Dutch Lutheran roots influenced her devotion to spreading the gospel to all she met.

Yes, there is no doubt that she had a profound influence on my life, and so did her sudden passing.

On Christmas Eve 1978, she had baked her famous Busy Day Cake, and was reaching into the cellar way for a can of condensed milk on a shelf. She lost her footing and fell down the cellar steps. She was 77 years old at the time of her fall. She managed to make it back up the steps and into bed.

Christmas morning her leg was terribly swollen and bruised. My brother Buddy went up to see her, and called the squad. She was taken to Warren Hospital. I went to visit her that Christmas day and brought her a small gift, a porcelain child on a sled. I did not know that it would be the last time I would see her alive.

On December 30th while I was working as a barber at the Palmer Park Barber Shop, I received a phone call from my sister Ruth Ann telling me that Aunt Ree, our God Mother had passed away. Apparently, she had a pulmonary embolism.


While helping Uncle Bill prepare for an auction sale I found a daily devotional book in her desk, and on the thirtieth of December there was a poem, that ended with these words; "A few more rolling suns, at most, will land me on fair Canaan's coast, then I shall sing the song of grace, and see my Savior face to face." Prepare to meet thy God. Amos 4: 12

 

We would often visit our God Parents for Christmas Dinner when I was a little girl.  The ride there was very pretty in the snow.   We drove from Phillipsburg, NJ passing through Easton, PA, and the drive north on Rt. 611 wound along side the Delaware River.  Once we were in Martins Creek we took Creek Road which crisscrossed a creek then a turn up Rasely Hill Road to gradually climb up the mountain through a very pretty snow covered evergreen tree filled small ravine.  The scene was right out of a Currier and Ives print.

Excerpt from the book: Upon entering the house the smell of burning wood was always in the air, even in the summer when the stove was usually shut down. I've loved that smell and even now over forty years later I still love the smell of a wood fire mostly  for nostalgic reasons.  Memories of that farm and its inhabitants  hauntingly linger awaiting to be evoked by the first whiff of a campfire, and then the tears well up in my eyes.  It is for this reason that I can completely understand the saying that nostalgia is bittersweet and the perfect combination of pleasure and pain.

 

 

Our Great Uncle Bill would cut a cedar tree down from their property, and it was placed on a table.  Within my memories of Christmas when I was a little girl are bits and pieces of special touches like a bear family,  a vintage Santa, cast iron deer, and several very old glass ornaments from Germany that had belonged to my Great Grandmother Eck.

 

We always knew what the gift from them would be for every year we got a flannel night gown and they were greatly appreciated as our bedrooms were rather cold in a poorly insulated home.

I surely hope that in the memories of my children and grandchildren my Christmas celebrations, sprinkled with the traditions of my late family members will also be remembered so fondly. It is my greatest wish to have the heart warming simple celebrations like those of my childhood continued as a tradition with my children and grandchildren and so forth.


To purchase My Ominous Adventures At True Blue Farm, and read more about my Great Aunt Ree and her farm: Click Here This link takes you to the Barnes and Noble online book store. Thank you!  Merry Christmas!

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Monday, December 19, 2011

What Is Most Important On Christmas



 Today I read a post made by a friend regarding the lack of Christmas Spirit on Facebook and the following story from a Christmas in my past came floating back.




It was  Christmas 1984, my Mom, was complaining because I asked her to give me a ride to the nursing home to deliver cookies donated by our Brownie Troop. She had much to do, and resented this extra trip. She was always doing for us, and I guess she felt unappreciated. I made a comment about how she was helping some elderly people have home baked cookies, and a more joyful Christmas.

Feeling a little depressed, she commented back that she wished her Christmas wishes of new kitchen chairs, and new carpeting for the living room would be granted, but there just wasn't enough extra money to do this.

I sat down and wrote her a poem, about how it was much better to have our loving family all around the Christmas Dinner table sitting in broken chairs and having a wonderful meal to eat together than a Christmas alone without family.

 A year later at Christmas time, I was helping her clean for the holidays, and while cleaning off the top of the kitchen cabinets, I found the poem. I read it and cried, and cried some more. Because you see, this was Christmas 1985, our first Christmas without our Dad at the Christmas Dinner table. He passed away of cancer of the lung the previous August.

Before Dad passed away he retired and bought Mom a new dining room set and carpeting for the living room.  My sister Irene had bought Dad a lottery ticket get well card while he was in the hospital. He won $200.00 on the lottery and never got a chance to spend it.  With the money Irene bought Mom a lounge chair,  and a floor lamp.

I am positively sure Mom would have traded all those material things for one more Christmas with her husband of 44 years. He wasn't perfect, but we all loved him unconditionally, and he always worked, and handed over the paycheck to Mom every week. We always had all the things we really needed, like shelter, warmth, and food, and he provided them all for all of us.

I have often said, "Yes, Jesus brings us our gifts on Christmas, and Santa Claus and the wonder of childhood dreams are two of those gifts!" The best gift Jesus gave was himself, so we all could live by his example, learning to love ALL people unconditionally, and have everlasting life in PEACE!



My dad always hung the shining star on the highest bough.

Sunday, December 11, 2011

Woderful Days At Walt Disney World-Magic Kingdom-HAPPY BIRTHDAY ABIGAYLE!






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Thursday, December 8, 2011